HOO’S LEADING LADIES SERIES 厚的女主系列
This week, I will run a series on Hoo’s leading ladies, featuring female lead characters in Park Sihoo-ssi’s main dramas and how I see these reel life ladies fitting in with him in real life.
I thought it timely as coming up in February will be Park Sihoo-ssi’s “2017 Dramatic Valentine” event. So there must be a romantic feature somewhere. In Miyazaki, he shared that top in importance to him is romance. This he prioritizes above work, money and health. It’s good to hear this from him as he is approaching his 39th birthday this year. If I remember correctly, he mentioned in a long ago interview that he hoped to get married at this age.
So, being woman, the inquisitive me am wondering what type of woman would make him a good wife 🙂 He has mentioned a while ago the type of woman he likes. Cute and outgoing to complement his shy personality. Now that he is older, and hopefully his life journey has made him wiser, is he still thinking the same?
Whatever his thoughts, they are private. But let’s have fun this week speculating about Hoo’s leading ladies! Who would be perfect for him 😏 Hehehe!
Hoo’s leading lady – Homemaker Ha Dana in “Family Honor”
First off, Family Honor’s Ha Dana! Homemaker Ha Dana. Now, among his leading ladies, she is my favorite! Well grounded, well brought up, determined, a woman with a mind of her own. Yet, still retaining the traditional family values of good daughter, home maker, loving wife and good mother. A well brought up woman who is so befitting our Park Sihoo-ssi. She will be his homemaker and his faithful anchor in life!
In my view, if Park Sihoo-ssi can find a woman like Ha Dana, they would be a perfect match. Two peas in a pod. Don’t you think that how I have described her, if we just change the gender from female to male, we would be describing Park Sihoo-ssi? “Well grounded, well brought up, determined, a man with a mind of his own. Yet, still retaining the traditional family values of good son, home provider, loving husband and good father. A well brought up man who is so befitting our Ha Dana.” Kekeke 🙂
Yes, I like this leading lady. I can envisage a family surrounded by love, respect and that little hint of naughtiness between husband and wife 🙂 And not forgetting little boys and girls so like their parents!
Definitely, love to see a Ha Dana type leading lady for our Park Sihoo-ssi! Yeah!
But, being so similar, will life be too mundane and predictable? Will he be contented or does our Park Sihoo-ssi need a breakthrough? Add more zest to his life? Hmmm…a question only he can answer! Hahaha! 🙂
持家妇女
这周我将会篇一系列关于厚的女主,主要展示施厚君的电视剧里的女主的角色,以及这些角色是否会是施厚君现实生活中的最佳配偶。
觉得时间正合时,因为施厚君将在2月举办他的“2017年戏剧性情人节”活动。 所以一定有浪漫的一面。在日本宫崎,施厚君分享浪漫对他是最重要,把它排在工作,金钱和健康更优先。非常高兴他这么想,因为今年他就39了。如果我记对的,他在很久之前的采访中提到希望在这年龄结婚。
所以,作为女人,好奇八卦的我,想探讨什么类型的女人会是他登对的好妻子,好伴侣 🙂 他好久前有提过喜欢的女孩类型。可爱和外向的女孩来补充他的羞怯的个性。现在年纪大了些,希望人生的经历让他更聪明,他还在想着同样的类型吗?
他怎么想只有他私人知道。这周我们自寻开心,探讨猜测哪类型的会是厚的女主呗!😏哈哈哈!
厚的女主 – “家门的荣光”何丹雅的持家妇女
首先,“家们的荣光”里的何丹雅!在他的女主当中,她是我最喜欢的!良好的根基,好修养,有着坚强的决心,有自己的想法的女人。然而,仍然保留了做好女儿,持家妇女,爱妻和好母亲的传统家庭价值观。一个有修养的女人,非常适合我们的施厚君。她将会是他的持家妇女和忠实的生活支撑!
在我看来,如果施厚君可以找到一位像何丹雅的女生,他们将是完美登对的配偶。妳们认为之前所描述的何丹雅,如果把她从女性改成男性,我们是否在描述施厚君呢? “良好的基础,好修养,有着坚强的决心,有自己的想法的男人。但然而,仍然保留了做好儿子,家庭的支撑,爱夫和好父亲的传统家庭价值观。一个有修养的男人,非常适合我们的何丹雅。” 哈哈哈!:)
是的,我喜欢这女主。我可以想象一个围绕着爱,尊重和夫妻之间的一点调戏性的家庭 🙂 还有调皮的儿子和娇滴滴的女儿,长得像他们的父母!
非常希望看到像何丹雅类型的女主在我们施厚君的生命中!耶✌️
但是,如此相似,生活是否太平凡和可预测?施厚君会满足吗,还是需要一个突破?给他的生活添加更多的热情?嗯…这问题只有他自己才有答案!哈哈哈!😄
Photo Credits – Many thanks! sbs.co.kr, Fygo, My Daily, DCinside Park Sihoo Gallery
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Fantastic theme for the week, Nance!! Bravo! This topic interests me the most of all the topics for our Dear PSH. Especially this time of his life journey, is really the right age of his to give top priority to nail this. As I said before I am so glad to hear he chose romance over work, health and money as his top priority in his answer at Miyazaki. I think the genuine loving fans who truly admire and respect him really want to see him finding that soul mate soon. I am with you regarding Ha Dana being the top 1 most matching lady of all the dramas PSH has acted (even though my liking of QOR exceeded my liking for FH in drama comparison, but I would vote Ha Dana over Hwang Tai See if I am doing a similar exercise as your article), matching not in the drama sense, but to the PSH in real life. Nevertheless just as your wisdom also telling you , Nance, in life things don’t really turn out how they appear to be. To some people is the total opposite that attracts and is the total opposite that will compliment and enrich each other. It is really only PSH will know what he wants. What he used to like and wanted may have all changed with his life experiences. Or maybe it’s still the same, we shall see when the time comes. The other thing I want to say is I find myself goose pimples whenever I read female fans declaring their lustful love towards PSH or when I detect signs of fans harbouring private thoughts of PSH as their dream lover. I am hoping he nails this department so that a clear message can be sent out to those who have not looked at the mirror themselves and be awaken and think what chance can these fans have to be PSH’s love in the romantic sense. Wake up Please. If PSH were to find his love soon, then hopefully I will come across lesser chance of goose pimples whenever I check into the PSH social media. So Dear Sihoossi, it’s not only for your sake by getting your love life nailed, but also for my sake because lately I am seeing too many of such goose pimples comments and about to shut me off from your social media in order that I don’t get irritated by those who have not looked at themselves in the mirror so to speak. Your ajuhma auntie or mother fans like me we sincerely wishing you reaping the happiness of marital blissful life.
Like many of his “mother” or “sister” fans, it is my fervent wish that this “little brother” settles down soon to marital bliss. He ain’t getting any younger and if he wants to enjoy family life especially with boisterous kids, time that he gets cracking 🙂 I am no expert when it comes to the entertainment industry and as the saying goes “Love is blind” so majority of time, one can’t really control whom one falls in love with. Ok, this is assuming it is not one of those arranged marriages which are still prevalent in Korea. But someone I know who used to work in the entertainment industry told me that for someone working in the industry, there are a few things that are taboo and best to avoid as they will get you into trouble quickly and when you least expect. One of them is having a relationship with someone who works in the same industry ie: fellow actors or actresses or with a fan. While one may not want it to happen, if the relationship sours, it can get one into hot soup and scandal so fast, it would be difficult and take forever to untangle oneself. I think this person who shared this is very wise. We see these incidents happening all the time which affect the reputation of the stars in question.
Easy topic, pure, entertain! Himself, for the other half of Shi Houjun, not too much imagination! But there is one thing that is basic and looking forward to, that is to be absolutely intelligent! Beautiful, elegant, lovely,…… Many of the external settings, is to be handsome boys, the right state! Intellectual, virtuous, atmosphere, many intrinsic rhythm, but also to maintain consistent temperament and boys! The combination of wisdom, wisdom, and wisdom, complementing each other’s imperfections! Get along with the model, not only the opening of two people, but also involves the two people around, all social relations! Balance the network of relationships, harmony, love, sincerity is not an easy thing! Myself, for love understanding: the soul similar to the two person, met no earlier than late, mutual love, mutual appreciation! Do not care about, who is amazing who’s time, or who gently who’s years! Quietly share happiness, do not suit thin cool, not words from the war, is accompanied by the old, the most warm company! Hope, Shi Houjun, can also find the other half!
The topic Nance is touching today is a delicate, emotional, and very sensitive one. As mother of two sons, I was confronted with the problem of how my sons should become good husbands and fathers, with a happy family , loving wives and good children. I have never interfered in their choices of their future wives, thinking that they were mature enough to decide of their own life, as one of my son said:”Our mother has taught us a lot of important moral principles in life, which we must keep in mind and take into consideration.” PSH is also my adopted son and I think of him as of my natural sons too and I want him to have a happy family life . And I will never suggest who can be his most glamorous housewife, becaus everything depends on his choice. But I’d like him to think that :”Getting married, for me, is the best thing I can do. Because it is an immense sense of release of being married, because it will be an immense happiness that wil come from being together.” For PSH marriage must require mutual understanding , between both of them, and love. And if we think that marriage means also mutual attraction, biological compatibility, intelectual and spiritual level, family welfare , health and well-being, and if PSH will assume these parameters too, then he will enjoy a long and happy conjugal life, we all want for him. I’d like to live the moment ,when he will get married, when he will be the happiest husband in the world. And me , a happy mother for her adopted son, PSH!
Ha Dan Ah is a woman with principles, which has a beautiful career and proves seriousness and passion for what she do, but emotionally she is lacking of energy and pessimist, which needs a strong man, daring and who can impose.
My opinion is that for the shy PSH is suitable a woman like Zhu Li (Chen Ran). A strong character, who has a career and knows what she wants. A woman, at the same time, sensitive and romantic, eager for a stable relationship, where the feelings of love is mutual. A woman who knows and has the power, in the name of love, to give up for the other’s happiness.
This imaginary relationship could be continued in the real life, I think. Rarely I got to see a couple so harmoniously. Two beautiful people with solid careers and successful. Both they have a sense of humor and seems to know how to amuse themselves together.
I appreciate your concern, dear aunts, sisters or cousins for our dear nephew, brother or cousin (could be for me), to see him at his house, with his beautiful family. But do not forget that he is not an ordinary man. He is a Hallyu star and has many projects for accomplished on the road to success. Romance – yes, marriage – maybe later.
And a wife, childrens, they may appear exactly at the right time, according to everyone’s destiny, no matter the age.
And regarding his age, it means for me a joy and an opportunity to meet me (virtually) with him at the birthday party. In my eyes, he blooms with every year and shines.
Dana, I do like Zhu Li [ Chen Ran] a charming, strong, selfless woman, and together with PSH, they have revealed the most glamorous couple ,in the movie “Scent”. But I don’t know what are PSH’s criterions , for his future wife, and if Zhu Li [Chen Ran] should accomplish them. On the other hand ,sorry, I can’t agree with you , that marriage for PSH should be later, as he has a lot of projects to accomplish. He will have projects to accomplish all his life.. And to postpone his marriage for this reason is harmful for him. The secret to a happy marriage , and I think it’s right time for him to get married ,as he will be 39 this year, is that he must be a young father for his children. It’s very important for him , and his children. “The heart of a father is the masterpiece of nature”[Abbe Prevost] As a young father his goal will be to make his children better than he is. And I hope , that there will be nothing more contagious for his children than his dignity as a father.
I like both your thoughts and initially I had thought about Zhu Li, in fact Chen Ran. But unfortunately I have to disappoint you. The lady openly declared that “Kimchi” is not to her kind of food…that is on the day of the press conference to launch Scent to the press in Beijing.
I didn’t know this . Dissapointed ,as it seems to me an unpolite remark even at the press conference . Should we take it as a disguised allegation about PSH?
No need to be offended…Kimchi is not everyone”s best food…we all like the familiar especially with language issues 🙂
I think she hasn’t meant strictly the dish, but it was used as a figure of speach to aim at something else. Maybe I’m wrong.
Stefania Lupu I know what you mean but it is an expression to say that something is not to one’s taste, so basically saying that Korean men are not to her taste…not aimed at our favourite man…
If Korean men are not her taste, PSH being Korean , it means that he is not her taste?. I’m not bothered at all. PSH has thousands of lady fans who adore him.
Ştefania, I respect your opinion, but I ask: why dads should be necessarily young?
An older father loves less his child? Or he spent less time with his child?
Love and responsibility of a parent is supposed to be the same, regardless of age.
When you’re older, you regain your energy and youth beside your child. And I think a child see his father exactly like he is, because he is his father (young or old).
And, about projects: I referred to those projects which must make him to regain, as soon as possible, its rightful place in the heart of his Korean public, and more than that.
Park Sihoo-ssi 박시후 씨 , I remain at my opinion: Zhu Li is the character most suitable for PSH.
Regarding Chen Ran, well, I like to see them together, but to form a couple, obviously it’s not enough to look good together. But I am convinced that they are good friends.
Dana, in my opinion, a father and even mother, the younger the better for parents and children. I have an example of a child with an older father, who felt embarassed in front of his friends.”Look , your grandfather is looking for you.”And the child replied; “He is my father” and he was very upset with his father for this . You are right that a father is as loving , mindful and considerate for his child, even if he is younger or older. But from child’s perspective , he wants his parents to be young. I hope this won’t happen to PSH, and I also hope him to get married soon, while he is young and looks so young. And I’m also sure that he will be a loving and careful father for his children.
Clap Clap Clap, I just told Nance I better revert to my home paerwork instead of playing further, then I stumbled on your above exchanges. Most interesting. Everyone has each opinion. Hahaha, this the spirit of the book club. I hope our man is reading all these and having a great laugh.
I see both views from Stefania Lupu and Daniela regarding becoming a parent now for PSH. Same view with Stefania when I consider the biological time impact, lucky for PSH as a man, this clock doesn’t impact him, he can be a father at any age. Nevertheless it will mean the longer he defers, the bigger age gap he needs to marry the woman who can still biologically bear his children. Again, age is not an issue for marriage but think about the older part of journey when there is a big age gap between the man and the woman, the higher possibility of the other half remain on her own, will PSH like such possibilities. While Daniela’s view you look at PSH whose life destiny is not any ordinary human being especially when we all can see he is doing his comeback now, if he diverts his energy and focus for now to his personal life, can he focus as well in his work. So I see your point too, especially PSH is the type of person who excels when his attention is not divided. Therefore, life as always is challenging, PSH will need to do his own decision and choice at every cross roads, at every point of stock taking of his life path. No one can help him, even we all busy body loud mouths mother fans, kekeke
Regarding the character Chu Li if she matches PSH, I await to see if Chu Li will be one of Nance’s this week’s articles.
Stefania Lupu On the point regarding a young child is embarassed about an old father, sorry that I cannot agree based on this type of phenomenon that parents should be young and not old with an example of an old father who people think is the child’s grandfather which made the child embarassed. To me, the child and his friends need to be educated and explained about what’s life can be, life should not be just the usual prejudice that a father should not look as old as a grandfather. I am the number 10th child of my father who was already in his 50s by the time I was able to talk, walk, mingle with people. To me, I have always been proud of my father because my father was (deceased father) a great person, even as a young child, I didn’t feel a slight embarassment why my father was that old while the others’ theirs were younger. I think the society should get rid of such prejudice and give due respect to each and every circumstance. The mere possibility of a child being embarassed by an old father should not be the deterent for people whose fate happened to make them a parent when they are much older. Instead it should be whether the old father has considered his personal physical strength, energy and ability to do the things a child would very much loved to have experienced with a younger father, he should consider whether this aspect is important especially in the case of say playing football with a son. In my personal experience, an older father for a daughter who needs the father more for dialogues made me feel I benefited even more than my older siblings because my father was much wiser and calmer for me than he was able to mingle with my older siblings.
Thanks, Chai Hua Loke. I could not explain it better to Stefania.
Chai Hua , thanks for trying to to better explain the debate about why is important for a father to be young or old .And coming with example from your life , the argument of a father being younger or older can prevail in both cases.
This is a topic which can be viewed from many angles. Nothing is more harmful than when parents can’t control their dislike because of their child’s choice of life companion. Their child’s happiness should be their top priority. When I think of Han Dan Ah in perspective of PSH’s profession, she should go well with him, because of her well grounded personality. However, two similar characters in one relationship can be as destructive as two opposites It comes all to the right mixes of qualities. However, it is PSH would should make the final choice. What kind of woman would meet his expectations? Only he knows and this may change over time