Even though life has been very hectic of late, with so much pressure from all fronts, my mood has been holding up pretty well. Am I stressed? No doubt! But maybe it is oxymoron to say this, but I also feel relaxed. Pressurized yet relaxed! Paradoxical, right?
Why? I asked myself. And then I got it.
He laughs, so we laugh…or at least I laugh!
Somehow, his moods, his news and news about him affect me a lot. He makes my day, how I feel each day and how I take each day. Does this sound familiar to you?
I didn’t start off like this. He was a little discovery I made in the middle of 2012 and before I could barely know him, he disappeared from public view. Those were dark days, fighting days. But they made me discover more of him and the more I see and read, the more I like and the more I think this man is worth fighting for.
Over the last couple of years, even with his silence, my mind seemed to very much in tune with him, or I like to think so 🙂 I used to say I have this “antsy” feeling where he was concerned. When I got this feeling, within a short time frame, something would happen and there would be news on him. And this would make my day. On bad days, I would be angry and upset. And on good days, I would be happy like a bird!
Nowadays, my moods have been light and happy. In fact, someone close to me commented, “You look great, simply glowing!” Hmm! I do feel great! Not many things fluster me too much. I can be dead serious at times, in deep thoughts but I take things in my stride.
I think it has to do with him. His comeback has been a success…small uncertain steps at first, but now bigger steps ahead. He is surely regaining lost grounds. Still a ways to go, but surely forward and progress. He laughs so much more nowadays. So much more relaxed, so much more spontaneity, so much more responsive.
And most importantly, he is happy and enjoying life!
He laughs, so we laugh! Yes, we laugh right along with him!
I think REO Speedwagon’s song “Can’t fight this feeling” expresses well my feeling. Not a man-woman kind of feeling but just pure platonic big sister – younger brother caring and love.
He laughs, so I laugh too! You make my day, every day, Park Sihoo-ssi!
Youtube Video – REO Speedwagon’s “Can’t fight this feeling”
他笑,我们也跟着笑
虽然生活一直很忙碌,来自各方面的压力好多好大,但心情一直不错。也许这样说是自相矛盾,但我觉得轻松。压力大但轻松!矛盾,是不是?
我问自己,为什么会这样呢?然后找到了答案。
他笑,我们也跟着笑……至少我跟着笑!
不知何故,他的情绪,他的消息和新闻对我有好大的影响。他遥控着我的日子,我每一天的感觉,我怎么去面对,应付每一天。姐妹们,听起来是否很熟悉?
开始时,不是这样的。我是在2012年中“认识”他,几乎没多久他就从公众视野中消失了。那些日子是黑暗的日子,每天都在战斗。但,这让我发现了他的更多,让我看到和阅读了他的更多,让我更喜欢和更觉得这人是值得为他奋斗的。
在过去的几年中,虽然他是沉默着,我的脑海似乎与他符合,可能自己的想像力过于操作吧 🙂 。曾经说过,当我有种“坐立不安”的感觉时,很短的时间内,一些有关他的事情或消息会公开,会影响我的一整天。碰到不好的日子,我会烦躁不安。来个好的日子,我就会乐得像鸟儿一样!
最近,我的心情非常轻松愉快。一位身边的好朋友对我说:“你最近人看起来脸色特别好,简直发光了!” 朋友,可能也是发胖了呗 🙂 是的!我觉得非常好!没有太多的事情可以使我慌乱。做事情按自己的步奏行。
我认为这跟他有关。他已经成功的复出了……开始是一小步一小步不确定的步骤,但现在是领先自信的大步了。他是一定会夺回失去的成就的,虽然还有很长的路要走,但是踏实稳定的前进和进步。现在,他是经常的笑, 多么放松,多么的自发性。
最重要的是他非常高兴,正享受生活!他笑了,所以我们也跟着他笑!是的,我们是与他一起开怀大笑!
我认为快速马车合唱团 REO Speedwagon 的歌曲“无法抗拒这种感觉 Can’t fight this feeling”很好的表达我的感受。不是男女之间的那种感觉,而是纯粹姐弟之间的关怀与爱护。
他笑,所以我也笑了!施厚君,是你让我的每一天过得更美满幸福!
Youtube Video – Park Sihoo-ssi laughs in shoelace action. CUTE!
Credits – Many thanks! Video by REO Speedwagon; Photos by Park Sihoo Instagram, Weibo and WeChat, OCN Local Hero 동네의 영웅, TBS
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As we all know life is fair life is also unfair. Our journey on this earth plain comes with tears and laughters, up to each of us how to deal with both when it’s time to laugh when it’s time to cry. Only those experienced a good cry can truly savour the sweetness of laughters.
忙しいに、しかし、喜び、生活の本当の意味!矛盾、まったく哈がない。施厚君、動力加速器!一人一人が、もっと良い状態の自分、行動の支柱になる!とてもうれしい、こんなかっこいい男の子が、私たちには、私たちの気持ちに、私たちは、私たちに影響を与える!付き添う時、とてもすばらしくて、正しいですか?大事なのは、心の奥の確固たると成長、問題、解決の目標軌道、交通のスムーズな哈!心から笑い、心から!ある日、恋のような感じがします!自分と同じもの持った者同士、施厚君と友達!愛、1つの字!
“I love people who make me laugh. I honestly think it’s the thing I like most. It cures a multitude of ills. It’s probably the most important thing in a person.”[Audrey Hepburn] And PSH has been born with this gift of laughter . Looking at his photos when he was a child, he was always laughing, with that sweet , cute child laughter , that I love so much. Then when he has grown up ,with a soft, or loud, or deep, or contagious laughter. Even when he was sad, he tried to hide his sadness in laughing , thinking that his really effective weapon against his misfortune is laughter ,because he believes that life is worth living as long as there is a laugh in it. And if we try to glimpse inside his soul, watching his laught, we can discover a good person. His laugh is like a good medicine for all of us! He makes us laugh , because his laugh keeps us from killing ourselves, when things are bad. “I was irrevocably betrothed to laughter , the sound of which has always seemed to me to be the most civilized music in the world.”[Peter Ustinov] . And I think PSH has been irrevocably betrothed to laughter, that makes him happy. And much of his happiness depends upon his ability to spread happiness around him. “Against the assault of laughter , nothing can stand.”[Mark Tawin] , Yes, against the assault of PSH ‘s laugh, nothing can stand!
We fall flat, against PSH’s laughter. LOL
Stefania, you have written so beautifully about PSH’s laughter – it’s exactly how I and many other of his fans experience as well but not able to articulate it the way you did. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Thanks Dorothy, but we must thank PSH too, because a day without his laughter is a day wasted. His laugther is a tonic, an encouragement , a support, a relief of our pains!