I have said it time and time again, “Park Sihoo-ssi is a lucky man!” And he certainly is! He has a loyal following of fans who love him like their own family, much like he treats them as his. And he often calls them his No 1 Treasure.
But more unusual and comforting for him, unlike other stars, are his grand and gracious dames who love him to no end and are most supportive of him. I know of three grand dames, I apologize if there are more that I do not know of, and I have not mentioned them here.
The three are grandmothers of more than 75 years old. These grand dames hail from different parts of the world, but this does not lessen the love, care and concern they have for their grandson or son as one calls him.
One grand dame I heard through the grapevine is in her 90s and of his own flesh and blood, his paternal grandmother, Grandma Park. She is who is responsible for his upbringing, from his birth as the eldest grandson of the Park family. I believe she is an important impetus for his being the well brought up, upstanding, principled and determined young man that he is today.
I remember how much his grandma loves him and believes in her grandson and stood up for him, articulating what was in her heart to the intrusive press during his tumultuous time. Seeing this grand dame again recently, she continues to be beautiful in my eyes, both inside and outside, just as she was when I first met her back in October 2013! She is a humble lady who was most emotional, shedding tears as we were leaving after our visit as part of the official Park Sihoo-ssi birthday tour in April 2017! Grandma Park, I hope to see you again next year, the same time! Until then, please take good care of yourself and keep in great health!
Another of Park Sihoo-ssi’s grand dames is from Beijing, China. Grandma Yangzi is 86 years this year, a very refined, elegant and cultured little lady who is there at almost all of his events over the last few years. Many of Park Sihoo-ssi’s fans know of her as she has been the most photographed and photogenic lady. She is so well travelled and her students populate the globe, so she is no short of invitations for visits.
She came to know of Park Sihoo-ssi because of “Family Honor” and has never turned back since. I met Grandma Yangzi on numerous occasions already, most recently in Tokyo for his Dramatic Thanksgiving Festival. I have the greatest respect for her. Her love for her adopted grandson knows no bounds. I hope she continues to stay strong and will be there for our favourite man for a long time to come!
Last but certainly not least, is Park Sihoo-ssi’s grand dame from Romania, Stefania. She calls him her adopted son and has the approval of her own flesh and blood sons and adorable grand daughter on her choice! Mother fan that she is, Stefania is a fervent fan who scours the net for the latest information on him and find ways to lend him her support. She is a wealth of information and wisdom on all things involving literature. So many quotable quotes she shares almost daily that set us wonder and reflect.
Grand dame Stefania, if not for ill health that prevents her from traveling, would have flown to join as many Park Sihoo-ssi events as she could, I am pretty sure! But even though she can’t be there physically, her heart and soul will always be there by his side, giving him all the support and encouragement she could offer! Thank you Stefania! Keep well and stay young so that your adopted son can have all your blessings and support!
There you have it. Park Sihoo-ssi’s grand dames!
You might ask, there should be one more? His real mother, Mama Park? Yes, no doubt she is the main dame, but she is way too young to be called a grand dame. Maybe in another ten years or so! Hahaha! 😄
施厚君的贵妇人
之前我有说过,“施厚君是一位幸运儿!”他的确是!他拥有忠实的粉丝们,把他当成自己的家人一样爱戴,就像他把她们当家族一样。他经常称粉丝们为他的第一宝物。
与其他明星不同,不寻常给他带来安慰的是他拥有亲切和优雅的贵妇人一直爱护着他,无微不致的支持着他。我认识三位年老的贵妇人,如果还有更多我不认识的,请原谅,在这没有提到您。
这三位贵妇人都是75岁以上的祖母。她们来自世界各地,但这并不减轻她们对这孙儿或其中一位称他为儿子的关怀,支持和疼爱。
我听说他的亲祖母朴奶奶已经年过90了。作为朴家的长孙,他出生到成长是朴奶奶养育的。相信奶奶扮演了重要角色,有好大的功劳把他教育成长为今天这位风度翩翩,彬彬有礼,有原则和坚定的年轻人。
我记得在他动荡的时刻,他的祖母是多么的爱护他,非常相信她孙子的人品,为他挺腰,将她内心感触清楚地表达给侵略性的新闻界。最近再次见到朴奶奶,感觉她真的是内外在的美,跟我在2013年10月第一次见到她时,没有任何的改变过!她是一位谦虚的贵妇,今年在施厚君官方举办的生日活动时,又见了奶奶,非常高兴她老人家身体比去年强壮。当我们告别时,她非常激动,掉下了眼泪。朴奶奶,希望明年再次见到您,直到下次,请好好照顾自己,保持身体健康!
施厚君的另一位贵妇奶奶来自中国北京。阳子奶奶今年86岁,是一位有活力,优雅和特有文化修养的老年贵妇。我非常的尊敬她。许多施厚君的粉丝们都认识她这位上镜的老奶奶。她经常旅行,学生居住在世界各地,所以她不缺邀请到访。
她是因为“家门的荣光”而认识施厚君,从此没有回头过。我多次见过阳子奶奶,最近是在他的戏剧化感恩节活动的东京站。她对她收养的孙子的爱护是没有界限的。阳子奶奶,希望您继续保持健康健壮的身子,和我们一起继续长久的爱护和支持着我们共同喜欢的男生!
最后但绝对不是最不重要的是来自罗马尼亚的斯蒂芬尼亚Stefania老年贵妇。她称施厚君为她的收养儿子。得到自己的血肉儿子和可爱的孙女赞同她的选择!当为妈妈粉,斯蒂芬尼亚Stefania是施厚君的超级粉丝,每天搜索关于他的网上的最新信息,并尽量去支持她这宝贝儿子。她对涉及文学的一切事物有着丰富的信息和智慧。这么多引人注目的说法,几乎每天都跟我们分享,让我们思考。
斯蒂芬尼亚Stefania如果不是健康有问题,阻止她旅行的能力,将会在第一时间飞行参加施厚君的活动!但是即使身体不怎么好,她的心灵永远在他身边,给予他所有的支持和鼓励!谢谢斯蒂芬尼亚Stefania!请保持良好身体状况,永远年轻,让您收养的儿子能够拥有您给他的所有的祝福和支持!
这几位就是施厚君的老年贵妇人了!
妳们可能会问,应该还有一位呗?他的母亲,朴妈妈?是的,毫无疑问,她是主要的贵妇,但她还年轻,不能被称为老年贵妇人。也许过十来年左右呗!哈哈哈!😄
Photo Credits – Many thanks! Stefania Lupu, 美人灿烂晚霞, 海淀紫色, Park Sihoo Weibo, Newsen, Weibo, Nance
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看到施厚有這麼多愛他的人在身邊,支持他,鼓勵他,真的很感動.希望幾位長輩都能身體健康,生活愉快,永遠幸福平安喲!
The elders of today, each and every one, deserve the greatest respect! The truest feeling of life, the simplest language, and the church are the principles that make life worth living! The greatness of common! When the children grow up, they steal away the time of their elders, and their days are getting old! It’s important to work hard outside, but don’t forget your family’s longing eyes! Make a phone call from time to time to make peace! Have time to go home, spend more time with the elderly! Whether or not the blood relationship, the accompanying Shi Houjun’s elders are family existence! Is the heart of all the fans who love him! Today, there is a feeling of home, is a family tradition transfer! The elders give the power of posterity, is a measure of the value of life scale, to make it more complete and meaningful!!
Yung Bin, thank you for thinking so touchingly about the elders, who deserve to be respected and loved by the younger people. Each young person is a poet trying to sort out the poetics of his inner life. Each elder person is a philosopher trying to sort out the meanings and gleanings of life. The intrinsic connection between them is that the conscience defined by the elders is passed on to the next generation.
Little moment of emotion with you this morning Thank you
I have never thought in my life, that one day someone will call me a “grand dame.” When this naming comes from a person , whom I appreciate so much, Nance, then I feel flattered. But most of all , when in her article she calls me one of “Park Si Hoo ‘s grand dames”, alongside with his paternal grandmother, whom I adore for her wisdom and strong support for her grandson, and for upbringing such a wonderful person and actor, and also with Mrs. Yangzi , from China, whom I also admire for determination to attend many of PSH’s events, far from her country, showing her strong encouragement for him, then I can say that I’m the lucky and happy PSH’s grand dame from Romania. But do I deserve to be called “grand dame”? Looking up in the dictionary “a grand dame” is usually an elderly or middle-aged woman, who is admired and respected, who is accomplished , influential , well-educated and a senior figure in a particular field. Is Nance’s intention to give me all these attributes? I think it’s too much, although I feel honored. In fact I’m an ordinary lady, yes an elderly one, a retired teacher , a mother and grandmother. I may say that at my age , whom I’m proud of, I’m an accomplished woman, personal and profesional. And although an elderly woman,not to say an old one, I’m still active in my everyday life, as long as my health allows me. And this is also due to the gorgeous K. actor, Park Si Hoo, whom I adore from the moment I met him in one of his dramas, “The Princess Man”. This was a turning point in my life, as from that moment I’ve become a fervent supporter of PSH, focusing all my time on this blog , dedicated to him. And enjoying every moment of the day, reading news about him, watching his dramas, expressing my deep appreciation for his talent. If my comments about him can be counted as my permanent support for him and his career, if with my senior figure I’ve influenced positively this blog, then I can say that this elderly lady is a strong pillar of this blog, and a staunch supporter of PSH. Voltair said:” Appreciation is a wonderful thing. It makes what is excellent in others, belong to us all.” Ansd my appreciation for PSH is focused on what is excellent in him, that belongs to us too. Finally. I express my gratitude to Nance ,who with her artful words has tried to turn an ordianry elderly lady into a Grand Dame, whose main goal in life was not to dissapoint the people around her.. Thankyou Nance ! Thank you very much!
Stefania Lupu A grand dame in my eyes does not have to be someone who is an influential public figure. She is someone to be respected for who she is, what she represents and the good she has done in her lifetime. Even the most ordinary persons, as long as they have done good, no matter how mundane, can be respected. A mother or a grandmother who brought up her children and grandchildren with love and taught them to become good, steadfast citizens are also to be respected!
I agree with Nance. Stefania Lupu YOU MORE THAN DESERVE THE GRAND DAME TITLE. 😍😍😍
Thanks both of you Chai hua and Nance.
A great article on the grand dames Nance! PSH’s grandma did a great job in the upbringing of her grandsons. I’m happy she’s still in good health. The grand dame from China I remember from multiple photos. And Stefania, you deserve to be mentioned among the grand dames! You are a fervent supporter of PSH. Leaving your messages wherever and whenever you can. Your quotes are always something to think about. You are our beautiful grand dame from Romania! Cheers on all PSH’s and our grand dames! May you be in good shape for a long time to come!
Thank you Wilma for your support and for your good wishes, this time for me. I’ll try to do my best to stay as long as possible near my sisters, and at the same time to enjoy and support my adopted son, PSH, to have a great success in his career in the future.
Today’s article on the 3 grand dames associated to PsH is a gem, a treasure. Thanks Nance for dwelling into it as a specific article. I have had the privilege of meeting his paternal grandmother and the Yangtze Nai Nai in Buyeo. Posed with with them ( oh those precious pics! ), gave them huge big hugs and despite the language barrier I think I got through to them the central message that though once strangers we have been brought together by the common thread of love for this man.
And Stefania, though we never met, it seems as though I have already known you for a long time. Even developed some telepathy between us?
It got to be the marvel of your contribution to Nance’s blog almost on a daily basis – beautiful comments laced with equally beautiful quotations which showcase your total % commitment to loving and supporting this remarkable adopted son of yours. Your messages are always illuminating and positive – always to encourage him to press on , move forward and not to despair even if there may be at times obstacles and tumbles along the way. Or to wait longer. Amazing devotion from this Romanian grand dame! Summing it all up – why so great the love for Sihoo-ssi by these 3 grand dames ( and I am sure there are more whom we may not know )? Well it has to be if he is the apple of their eye
Yes dear Dorothy, the telepathy between both of us creates a strong bond between us, who believe that there is something magical about our relationship. Many times we could sense each other’s feeling for PSH, being the same and this represents the magic of our relationship. Because as you say :”He is the apple in our eyes”every day, every minute. Thank you very much for your wonderful words, dear sister. And ., yes, Nance’s article about “PSH”‘s grand dames”‘ is a piece of gem, reflecting her great respect and admiration for those elderly ladies , who are adoring their grandson, adopted grandson, and adopted son, and who are permanently supporting him, through their love for him.
So much good words have been expressed by the many of you. All so well said. I need not say more other than agree with all the views. The thing i would like to add is something I have said several times previously that the daily presence of Stefania Lupu at Nance’s blog was the reason I started my daily follow of Nance’s blog. Any new PSH’s fan would understand the internet stuff associated with PSH is a very confusing world. After I discovered Nance’s and further reinforced by Stefania’s support of Nance’s, I knew this is a credible site. And I never need to look back. Life has since been fun.
Dear Chai Hua, I’m so pleased the way you are praising me that I have tears in my eyes. And I’m also happy that you have become a permanent and profound commentator and great supporter of PSH. Yes,this blog is a very credible one with fans like you, Nance, Dorothy, Dana, Wilma, Yung Bin and many others. Let’s continue to increase the number of PSH’s fans on this blog ,as he needs them. “Don’t Leave” , but ” Come closer to me” is the message he expresses in his song.