“A hug is a smile with arms, a laugh with a stronger grip.”
—-Terri Guillemets
What an apt way to describe a hug! A smile with arms! A laugh with a stronger grip!
That was exactly how I felt about that most anticipated hug of Park Sihoo-ssi. There was no awkwardness between strangers. Nor was it one of a romantic kind as I am sure many a younger or young-at-heart lady had hoped for. It was purely platonic.
And made more comfortable when he indicated “wait” as he needed some water to quench his thirst and to wipe his perspiration when it came to my turn. By then he had given hugs to maybe 400 ladies in front of me already! Poor Oppa! He must be rather exhausted!
This slight wait gave me the opportunity to take in at close quarters his milk white, crystal clear skin, the slightly sharper angle of his face that gave him a much more defined feature. So slim, so balanced his physique, but totally muscular.
His hug was firm and strong. It evidently carried the warmth between friends or between an older sister and younger brother. Friendly, comfortable and affectionate. A strong bonding.
Definitely a smile and maybe even a laugh with a little more contact. A smile with arms. A laugh with a stronger grip. This hug will certainly be etched in my mind as one of the most beautiful memories.
What was it said in Park Sihoo-ssi’s movie “Scent”? I admit I can’t remember it clearly. The distance between friends is 80 cm and the distance between lovers is….
Nope, that hug would not close the distance and bring us closer as lovers, not at all, as there wasn’t any interest. But it was one that would close the distance between us, further strengthening the relationship as friends and family!
I love the smile with arms or the laugh with a stronger grip. The only thing I would like more would be that it will be more spontaneous in future.
手势的微笑
“拥抱是手势的微笑,更强握着的开怀大笑。”
—-Terri Guillemets
那么适当的方式来描述一个拥抱!手势的微笑,更强握着的开怀大笑!完全形容了我对期待如久的施厚君的拥抱。没有陌生人之间的尴尬,也不是一些年轻少女期望恋人之间的浪漫,纯粹就是朋友之间的友情。
轮到我时,他表示的“等一下”更让我感到舒服。他需要一些水来解渴,也要擦擦汗。在我之前他已经拥抱了大约超过400多名女士了!
这短暂的等待让我有机会近距离欣赏他的乳白,晶莹剔透的皮肤,他的脸部略微锐利的角度给了他更明确的特征。如此苗条,平衡但有肌的体格身材。
他的拥抱坚定而坚强。但朋友或姐弟之间的温暖是显而易见的。友好舒适和深情的关系。一个强大的粘接。
绝对是一个微笑或一个开怀大笑但更多一点的接触。一个拥抱是手势的微笑,更强握着的开怀大笑。这拥抱肯定会被蚀刻在我的心为一体的最美丽的回忆。
在施厚君的电影“香气”里提到朋友之间的距离是80cm。 恋人之间的距离是…
但那拥抱不会把朋友之间的距离啦得如恋人之间的距离,因为根本没有这种感情或兴趣,但会缩短我们的距离,进一步加强为朋友和家人!
我喜欢那手势的微笑或更强握着的开怀大笑。 唯一希望的是下回是更自然的自发。
Photo Credits – Many thanks! BNT International, Scent – the Movie, Red Hot Chilli Paper
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Thanks for describing the hug between PSH and you Nance. I think I can understand about what you wrote about being more spontaneous next time. Still it think it will be hard to achieve with nearing 600 hugs in a short time. It’s like a song playing in continuous mode without a pause in-between. The pause you had before the hug gave you a little more time ❤
Has Park Si Hoo really thought what his hug will mean for his fans? His hug at his “Hug Event” was silent, warm and spoke volumes. His hug was a simple gesture , that heightened the celebration of his great success in “My Golden Life”. His hug revealed his gratitude for his fans’ support. . I think, when he proposed a hug for a good rating for “My Golden LIfe”, his mind was focused on his intention to spread hope and love among his fans, as his life is for loving, smiling, caring, laughing, helping, healing and even more loving. I think everyone has felt in his hug a motion of hope, a seed of a happy heart, a positive energy , as his hug can do great amounts of good for them. As his arms are for hugging! As he smiles with his arms.!
Nice.
The unique emotional moment for fans, the joy of giving for Park Si Hoo. But I’m afraid of his health. Perhaps at the future meetings with his fans he will find another solution to show his gratitude. So many hugs, I believe they were in danger of becoming mechanical. Do you remember Charlie Chaplin’s “Modern Times,” when Charlot worked in a factory, tightening nuts? The gesture repeated indefinitely became obsessive. I’m glad for you, Nance, because that “wait” gave you the opportunity to contemplate this beautiful man. I think that moment of pause he asked from you because he just recognize you as an old friend. He gave a “refresh” to the “hug event” and then came the hug for you, the first in the second round, the one with the most emotional load and personalised.
Siii yo quiero un abrazo
“A hug is a smile with arms, a laugh with a stronger grip.”
—-Terri Guillemets
Brilliant Quote! Thumbs Up to your this succinctly written account of the detailed moment of your hug. Thank you for sharing this moment on this blog with us. Unlike your one to one photo with PSH which are solely for your eyes only, you chose to share your hug experience with us, we are appreciative of your sharing. Thanks Nance! As we know of our PSH, there is nothing that he cannot handle swiftly efficiently speedily, nevertheless to execute 500 (or was it 600, I am not sure…) hugs in half an hour, 3 seconds for each fan, 1 second to step forward, 2nd second to hug, 3rd second to adjust back ready to greet the next fan, a three seconds turnaround probably is a guiness record. That explains why the scent mystery could not be cracked, as in those couple of seconds, we probably haven’t breathe in one breath.
It must have been terribly disturbing, intimidating