Park Sihoo-ssi’s fans are a little different from the usual teenybopper star-chasers. His fans are more mature, age-wise, yes, but also in the way they think and act. Many are well educated, successful women, very opinionated and capable.
These fans consider Park Sihoo-ssi as their family. To them, he is their favourite grandson, son or brother, much like he is a 남동생 or younger brother to me. For us, family cares for one another and as Park Sihoo-ssi’s extended family, we care for him too.
Our maternity instincts are strong where he is concerned and we are like mother hens looking out for our chick. We love him, care about him and worry about him a lot – whether he is eating well, sleeping well and whether he is happy. Utmost in our minds is when he will find the woman of his dream, one who will love him, take good care of him, spend the rest of her life with him and bear him a brood of little Park Sihoos.
Many of Park Sihoo’s “mother” fans, especially those in China, have this common and active debate. Who will make him an ideal wife? I would venture to say, who will these “mothers” and “sisters” consider to be a suitable daughter or sister-in-law to their precious Park Sihoo-ssi?
Like mothers who think the world of their children, no one will ever be good enough, obviously!
Will an actress make a good wife for their golden boy? Maybe someone from the industry will understand him better and support him through all those irregular, unearthly hours and the pressures from filming? Nah, an actress will likely be too jaded and how many still have their natural looks?
Maybe someone outside of the business will be more appropriate? But how can he get to meet that someone? He is a public figure. It will be almost impossible for him to go date someone or even approach a woman and not start rife gossips! And, we definitely don’t want some hussy who is out for money or fame to sink her claws into him!
How about match making? Isn’t that a common practice in Korea? But, a matchmaking date is so mechanical. Can he find love? We want him to have love in his life, not just companionship!
Aigo! Big major headache, finding this paragon of a woman for our precious Park Sihoo-ssi!
We all mean good, but we are not Park Sihoo. Only he knows what he likes best and who will make him happy. So maybe we should just let nature take its own course. Park Sihoo-ssi is afterall a big boy 🙂 We can only wait and dream for that day to come.
Park Sihoo-ssi, when will you indulge your “mothers” and make their dream come true?
每个母亲的梦想和期待
施厚君的粉丝跟其他的追星族有点不同。她们相对更成熟,不单论年龄,也在她们的思想,人生观和风度上。很多厚粉都是受过良好教育,事业成功,很自信,很能干的女性。
这些厚粉把施厚君当成家人。他是她们的孙子、儿子或弟弟,就像我把他当成남동생或弟弟一样。作为家人,我们会彼此爱护和照顾,对施厚君也不例外。
对他,我们的母性很强,就像母鸡似的照顾和爱护我们的小鸡仔。我们喜欢他,关心他,一直为他担忧 – 他究竟吃得好,睡得好,是否快乐?我们最担心的是,他什么时候能够成家,找到他的另一半,一个深爱他,体贴和无微不至的照顾他,跟他愉快度过余生,并为他生育几个小施厚的女人。
在施厚君中国粉丝群里,他的婚姻大事是个热门话题。 谁会是他的理想型呢?或者因该换句话说,谁会被这些“妈妈”和“姐姐”认可为她们宝贝施厚的理想终生伴侣呢?
就像世界所有的母亲一样,施厚君的妈妈粉们都认为自己的孩子是最好的, 永远没有人可以配得上。
女演员是否是好人选?也许从行业的理解,可以更了解和支持他不定的工作时间,和减轻他拍摄时的压力?不,一位演员很可能已经被惯坏,多少个还是保持着天生自然的容貌呢?
也许娱乐圈以外的会更好些?但是他如何找到适当的人选呢?作为一个公众人物,这几乎是不可能的事。他一露面接近任何女人或跟任何女人约会,肯定会引来一连串的八卦新闻!而且,我们不希望有女人用不测手段找机会钓个金龟婿!
或者牵线搭桥婚姻安排如何?在韩国这习俗不是还普遍吗?但是,牵线搭桥的约会是否会太机械化了?在这样的情况下,他可以找到爱吗?我们都希望在他生活中含有许多爱,不只是单单一个伴侣!
哎呀!这真是头痛的一个大问题呀!怎么找到一位典范的女人给我们的施厚君呢?
我们大家都出以友善良好的心意,但是我们不是施厚君。唯有施厚君才会知道自己最喜欢理想的,哪一类型最适合他的。也许我们太着急了,应该让他顺其自然。施厚君毕竟是一个大男生了:) 我们只能等待和梦想那一天的到来。
施厚君,你几时会让你的“妈妈”们的梦想成真呢?
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What an interesting article Nance, I should have read this long ago, but I have only just read this one now. Hahaha… I can bet there is not a mother hen fan who has not brooched this subject of who would best suit our beloved idol. However, love and destiny is not something that can be rushed or forced. PSH will for sure knows it when he meets the right person. He is not just a big boy, he is an intelligent and wise man. We can’t hurry him, but a bit of plodding prompting shouldn’t hurt so that he doesn’t forget to put some attention to this important department. We know he is a man who once focus on his projects he goes so deep into his projects and forgets everything else.