There are many things in life that can be changed. But one thing that can’t be changed is our parentage. We can’t choose who our parents are and the families we are born into…sorry, but the stork just dropped that precious bundle wherever it fancies!
Seo Jian in KBS drama “My Golden Life” might love Park Sihoo-ssi’s Choi Dokyung but if her refusal of him is wholly because she does not want to be associated with the Choi family, then, there will never be any future for them, unless she changes her mind or is prepared to compromise. No way can Choi Dokyung change his parents or his family, his fate was decided on the day he was born. And he has no reason to give up his family at all. While they seem outwardly cold and unfeeling, deep down there is caring and respect though not expressed openly.
Similarly, Seo Jian can’t change her own parentage. She was born to the Seos, so whatever idiosyncrasies and problems the family have, that is her heritage. She might want to cut herself off from her family, distance herself by living away from home. Better still, if she won a design competition, she could disappear even further to Finland! But hand on heart, can she completely cut herself off from her family, her parentage?
So if both Choi Dokyung and Seo Jian can’t change their parentage, and if they cannot meet halfway, where does that leave them? Nowhere! Is this how their relationship will end? Is this what Writer So has in store for them?
Don’t miss “My Golden Life” on KBS 2 at 1955h Korean time this weekend!
“我黄金光辉的人生”:改变不了亲子关系
生活中有许多事情都可以改变。但是有一样是绝对改变不了的事情,就是我们的父母。我们选择不了谁来当我们的父母亲或出生的家庭……对不起,但是鹳鸟可以在任何地方都放弃它拿着的珍贵的包裹!
在KBS电视剧“我黄金光辉的人生”中,徐智安喜欢施厚君饰演的崔道京,但是拒绝了他,原因是她不想和崔氏家族有任何的关系。除非她改变主意或准备妥协,那么他们之间将永远不会有任何的未来。崔道京是不可能改变他的父母或他的家庭,他的命运是在他出生的那一天决定的。而他根本没有理由放弃他的家人。 虽然他们表面看起来冷酷无情,但内心深处还是有一丝爱和关怀,但没有表达出来。
同样的,徐智安也不能改变自己的亲子关系。她出生在徐氏家,所以无论家庭有什么特质和问题,那就是她的遗产。她可能想把自己和家人隔开,远离家乡。最好的是如果她赢得了设计比赛,她甚至可以消失到芬兰!但是,她真的能完全隔离她的家庭,她的血统关系吗?
所以如果崔道京和徐智安都不能改变他们的父母和家庭,而且他们也不准备在半途协调,那么他们的关系会去哪呢? 无处! 他们的关系就是这么结束吗? 这是苏作家为这对苦命鸳鸯设置的结局吗?
不要错过这周末播出的“我黄金光辉的人生”!KBS 2 台,韩国时间1955点!
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With the advance of the plot, male and female protagonists can’t change their origins and families, and their emotional orientation is half the pursuit of beauty and half of the acceptance of disabilities. In a fairy tale, there will be a person who has no shortcomings. Many times, there is no so – called appearance, just to hide, a little care in the heart of the heart! Before her eyes, the world is not representative, pitch-dark! The eyes of others are not equal, light belongs to themselves. Family relationship, relationship, real, existence! Two of the same heart, good talk, always keep, true love, also there! Unpredictable, where is the way of emotion? But I hope to see at least one another, a good couple, a happy look!