We are missing you!
“Absence makes the heart grow fonder.” Whoever coined this proverb was a highly sensing and emotionally in-tuned person. Absence definitely makes the heart grow fonder!
And I have certainly been missing you, Park Sihoo-ssi!
Even though it was only in early May 2016 that I have last seen you in person, less than four months ago, I have been missing you big time. Your more frequent postings of photos on Instagram, WeChat and Weibo, until recently, have been pure ambrosia for all your starving fans!
Park Sihoo last seen at his Tokyo “Live” concert
But, he has been kind of lost in action since his last posting on Instagram about a month back. We can only speculate the reasons.
Regardless of the reason or reasons, his conspicuous absence has been felt! We have all been missing him! My cry for “Where are you, Hoo!” has been heard and reverberated around the Park Sihoo fan community. Many share the same feeling! I wonder if our Park Sihoo-ssi heard our voices?
Park Sihoo-ssi might be out of sight but he certainly isn’t out of mind. His fans continue to root for him every day. We write about him. We post beautiful photos of him. We vote for him. We chat about him. Every moment we can spare, we share our love for him to anyone who will bother to listen to us.
Out of sight but certainly not out of mind
If we go by the old wives’ tales that when someone talked about you in your absence, your ears would ring or you would have bouts of sneezing. If these tales were true, then our poor Park Sihoo-ssi’s ears must be ringing or he had been sneezing non-stop with all that buzz about him!
Park Sihoo-ssi, we have been missing you! As we count down to Miyazaki in 9 days, we hope that you would grace us with your presence in one form or another in the meantime!
We love you so much! 우리는 당신이 많이 사랑해요!
Youtube Video – Missing you by John Waite
Tudou – please click to view if you can’t watch on YouTube 如果看不了Youtube请点入观看土豆网
http://www.tudou.com/programs/view/HBgH1AP72Ww/
挂念着你
英语有句成语“不见人会使心更柔情。Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”
这成语的创始人是个高度敏感和有情感的人。不见人会使心更柔情！对施厚君来说，我的感觉绝对是这样的。
Wowing us with his presence at his Tokyo “Live” concert
虽然最后一次见他本人是在2016年5月初，不到4四个月前的时间，但已经非常想念他，离别就像非常久之前的事了。他在Instagram，微信和微博所分享的照片和视频给我们这些饥饿的粉丝们带来了无穷的欢乐。
但在大约一个月前，他似乎失去了踪影，完全没有任何的动静。我们只能猜测他消失的理由。
Where are you, Hoo?
不管是什么原因，我们都明显地感觉到了他的缺席！非常的挂念着他！之前，姐妹们都听到了我的“厚，你在哪？”的欢呼。大家也都纷纷的回应，有着许多的同感！不知道我们的施厚君是否听到了我们的声音？
施厚君虽然不在我们的视线里，但他并非被遗忘。厚粉姐妹们一直在为他努力。为他写文章。为他发布美照。为他投票。大家一起聊天。我们利用了所能利用的每一刻，让所有愿意的人，听我们赞美施厚君，加深他的认识。
We are missing you, Park Sihoo-ssi!
如果相信老妇人的传说，当一个人不在场时，有人谈到他，他的耳朵会响，他会不断的打喷嚏。如果这些传说是真实的，那么我们可怜的施厚君的耳朵一定一直在响着或一直在打着喷嚏，因为他的粉丝们不停的提起他！
施厚君，我们一直挂念着你！正倒计时，还有9天就可以在日本宫崎于你重逢。但，希望在这期间可以听到你的声音！
施厚君，我们爱你，非常非常的爱你！ 우리는 당신이 많이 사랑해요！
We love you so much! We miss you so much!
Credits – Many thanks! Youtube Video – Missing You by emimusic; Photos – BNT News, Park Sihoo Instagram, WeChat and Weibo, Hoo Factory, Scent the Movie
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Nance, when I 1st got myself onto Weibo end of Dec 15, I waited a solid 3 months where he never utter one word, not one sound in his own Weibo account. I was beginning to think it’s just a myth that superstars can be there sharing the same social media platform with ordinary fan. When I looked back to his last posting back on 12 Oct 2015, it was 25 March 2016 his next weibo posting. From there on, it was like firing squads of his numerous and continuous postings. Not only that, he took all of us tech challenged fans to experience new tech stuff : Wechat and Instagram. And yes, his last social media appearance was 30 July on his Ig which I coined the phrase using Cat Steven’s song “Another Saturday night but I ain’t got nobody….” yes, that’s the one we all guessed if there’s another pair of legs next to the 2 feet shown on his last ig and looking out to the far and away beautiful sea view. No doubt when he is actively engaged in interaction with his fans on social media, life can be a tat too busy for me, no doubt about that, yet it was all so fun and enjoyable when he shows up on his social media. Let’s hope PSH resurfaces soon and happily engage in interaction with the fans who so missed and loved him.
Nine more days and you will be experiencing in person his full charm! Life will never be the same for you again after that! You will be yearning to be able to see and hear about him as much as possible! I think a lot of stars put themselves on the pedestal and keep their fans at a distance, but not our star! He is very personable and that is what I like about him!
Alrighty, we shall see kekeke. I am wondering if my professional life or public profile get affected by this public page where we all poured our support for an actor who is a stranger to our real life. You know what I mean, if a headhunter who is supposed to do credential check on you, go to the internet, do a search of your name, all that comes up are all my pledges on support and love of a PSH K actor, what would the headhunter thinks…..they would highly think this woman is not worth looked at….let’s hope not, bit too late to go erase all my ranting and blabbing all about PSH on public social media..:)
Chai Hua Loke Kekeke! They will only think you are human! How can not heads turn at such a good looking man? But seriously, there is such a thing as work life balance. All work and no play makes Jill a dull girl 🙂 Geez, I wonder if I should be the one to preach this principle! Wish I have some balance in my life! Work apart, life is so occupied by one man already! Park Sihoo-ssi!
Well said Nance. Quality play is all we seek. Since time is so precious and limited no point spend play time that is not as high quality as PSH
Lets vote PSH for top 10 handsome Asian http://top10.vdfly.com. You can vote every 15minutes.
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Even if the famous PSH is missing for so long, he persists in our hearts forever. You take care of it Nance, through thorough and detailed pictures and comments you post making it possible for us to deliver our opinions. But as you say we lack a lot, both in images to different actions but especially in a new series that will delight our eyes and soul. It would be great to see him in a series no matter which shade, romantic, istoiric, action it is always the same talented and handsome actor, playing the highs any role, is a magnificent display. PSH We miss you please read your fans desire to make sure all their support, but come back in our face. Nance Thank you for your concerns with special reference to the great and beloved actor PSH.
Thank you Anita Baba for being a regular visitor to ParkSihooSssi.com! When I first set up the website, it was precisely because Park Sihoo-ssi was totally out of sight as he was doing his self reflection. No sight or sound! Even though my effort would be insignificant, I just wanted to do something in whatever way I could so that ere some visibility and hopefully to get more people to get to know him and like him. I am so glad this sisterhood has been formed and getting active. I hope more of you can join in our conversations and share your thoughts and feelings – again I say, in whatever language or whatever form you feel comfortable – we can always use an online translator. Let us get more active 🙂
Park Sihoo-ssi 박시후 씨 Nance for your beautiful soul we gather with you to give him our support PSH magnificent. Thanks so much for this.
Anita, what Nance has done and still doing for PSH, is out of this world. If I am not a part of this sisterhood if I were being told I will never believe this can be real. Or just like the many skeptics most will judge that Nance is someone out of her mind doing this in her demanding high executive career demand. We all know so well how level headed how sound motivation Nance is coming from. No other ulterior motive than just to support an incredibly deserving great talent who does not have the luck like the many darn lucky ones in the entertainment scene, those who has the luck where all their supporters or fans are rather blind, where these actors just wink or frown is considered befitting the description of “‘ a very dangerous look””. Ok may I fairly said Nance’s other motive is create enjoyment for herself, like I said when it comes to play and lack of time, why spread ourselves thin, just concentrate to play on quality subject, that is our PSH. What more when the sisterhood here is also of high quality thinking and input. I learn a phrase or a quote a day by reading Stefania Lupu’s comment.
Chai Hua Loke You are making me blush!!! Nothing so self sacrificing, just fuelling the passion in me and the belief in this man. He is made up for bigger and better things and I don’t like to see such talent being snuffed out by weasels! And I am so glad I did what I did. Otherwise I would not have the chance to meet and get to know like minded people like all of you here at ParkSihooSsi.com. Whether you post comments or click “likes'” in support or keep silent, knowing that you are here for Park Sihoo-ssi and giving your support by visiting this site is good motivation enough for me to continue. We are a sisterhood and I enjoy very much what we have! Many thanks!
Nance you have sacrificed your personal time and sleep big time, you have. I was about to say the biggest direct benefit of your website is all of us here (liked minded is the best description of our friendship and fanship here) are becoming dearer and closer to each other as we get to know each other better with each passing day, having our common focus on PSH.
Chai Hua Loke That’s what I appreciate in Nance, her passion and dedication to her beloved supporting actor show, we gathered around her, not everyone has this talent and we express our opinion about the topics that we propose Nance. He has a special talent for drawing our discussions, I until now I’ve got to interact with anyone else, only I showed sympathy for an actor or an actress, but here as we entered we felt the need to interact to do exchanges of ideas and opinions, because it is magnificent to see people who have the same goal you think and propose. Of course remoteness and lack PSH great actor makes us more insistent fine and want to get involved more to give him our support. And yes, feel like part sin sisters as nice group says Nance. It’s easy to initiate a group but it is harder to living, work, here comes his mastery Nance. I hope I made myself understood. Thank you.
“Absence makes the heart grow fonder” means that on a short amount of time we haven’t seen PSH, and although absent on social media, Wechat, Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, we continue to care about him, and thinki about him a lot. “Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones..”[Francois de La Rochefoucauld] . It means that when he,whom we love and support everyday, is too much silent, no photos, no communications, no news, all these make us want him more. .So , the question :”Where are you PSH?” , troubles our spirit, but we must face it.And we can’t chage the reality and t we tell him :”We miss you! When you are with us we feel perfect! Say something PSH!”
Stefania Lupu I like the quote “Absence diminishes mediocre passions and increases great ones..” This is exactly spot on! In being absent, one will know what is important to us and what is not. What is important will continue to be important, even if not top of mind, it will be underlying, deep in our hearts to be re-ignited at a moment’s notice! Park Sihoo-ssi is exactly like that for many of us, I believe
Although I lack the experience of having seen PSH in person, I can miss him so much already. Your post touches the question I have asked myself so many times already, Nance. If I can miss him that much already, how much more would I miss him if I should have that live experience? I think I would not like it even more I am living at the other side of the world. Yes, I miss him as much as you all do, but at the same time I feel at ease. Whatever PSH is doing, it is fine and nothing to worry about. However, I welcome any news! 🙂
Wilma, PSH feels your support, love and concern that comes from a far distance from him. I am sure he knows and could feel it. If he could take 76 netizens to legal route about their non stop sledging him on internet, I am sure he too combed and updated himself those fans volunteered blogs/webpages like yours and Nance’s, how can a gratituous man like PSH not knowing the level of dedication from fans (like yourself and Nance) self sacrificial of time and energy tremendously driven hard work put in to the internet world for him? For no other reason other than to do justice, to love, to support, to right the so wronged views taken by the majority out there.
Whether I will become missing him more after meeting him in person, is something I have yet to gauge, to experience. At the moment I’d say I highly doubt that will happen to me, ahem…..cough cough, wink wink.
I also like to share with you and Stefania Lupu that my dog is getting better again after a few days of sluggish appetite due to long term anti-biotics consumption to a point he started not eating as regularly as he did for the last 4 months. He had a very good news on 31/8 (this Tues) vet check up since his last check up in mid of June. He gained 0.6 kg weight, to the weight that has always been his usual weight at 27.8kg !!! for a aggressive gum cancer (oral fibrosarcoma) when we learnt the result of cancer on 27/4/16 he was weighing 25.4kg, followed by gradual increase every 2 to 3 weeks to 26.2kg, to 27.2kg on 30/6/16 , that’s incredibly unbelievable good news. Nevertheless it was also the start of a cycle where his appetite was only so so. For last 4 days he is completely off the one drug that always gave him the best booster – anti inflammatory, because anti inflammatory compound on the stomach upset (inflamed stomach was the word caused by anti biotics) . So instead of 3 types of medications on him (which all served to manage secondary effects, none of the 3 is a direct treatment to his cancer as there is no drug available for his type of cancer), he only has one pain killer pill a day, I was a bit worried what if his condition suddenly dip too low without this anti – inflammatory, the good news is he is still getting up and get going rather quickly, though his walking is rather slow (which I attribute to the natural decline as indeed he is rather old). This morning he ate his breakfast without much forcing that means his stomach is on upcurve of resting from both anti biotics and anti inflammatory. My other major worry is without the anti inflammatory whether his heavy breathing will resume, THANK GOD, he still breathes rather calmly. Oh my Dear Old Bob fighter dog, he is gaining step by step stability to allow his mum the ease of mind to be away to Miyazaki………I mustn’t say too much too early……I am nervous all the way.
Wilma van Zwietering You have been a much longer fan than I have been 🙂 There is something special about him that appeals to us that make us be here for him in the long haul. Like perfume, he has the top note that attracts, just like any star that is popular – first impressions. But not many has that base note that lasts for the longest time and that will appeal to our innermost self that we will come back for more. That is the difference which Park Sihoo-ssi has.
Very beautifully and aptly described!
Chai Hua Loke Chai Hua, it doesn’t feel like sacrifice to me. It’s something my inner voice tells me to do. The path to follow opened up slowly a few years ago and there is still more to come. For someone so down-to-earth who has to reason out everything before taking action, it feels somewhat uncomfortable to give the reins to that inner voice and act without asking why? There is more spinning in my head, but before that can crystallize I have to accomplish some other tasks first before I am capable to put those spinning voices into something visible. Don’t ask me why, when or how, because I don’t know either. I don’t know where this path will lead me, only that I have to follow it wherever its destination will be! :)This is unmistakenble PSH’s influence on me!
Chai Hua Loke That’s uncredible good news about your dog Chai Hua! 🙂 So happy he can manage on his own again except for that one pain killer pill a day. He wants you to enjoy your outing to Miyazaki to see our man in person! 😀
Park Sihoo-ssi 박시후 씨 PSH has that something special that speaks to my soul and keeps me stuck to him. It makes him one of the few men who are/were able to have a profound influence on me. I agree with Chai Hua Loke. You described him beautifully and aptly Nance! 😀
Wilma, it’s fantastic to read what you just said, that it is a course of he is speaking to your soul. Nance when we equate PSH in the way wine enthusiasts describe a good wine is it has length and mouth fill at the ending. Sauvignon Blanc sweeps the world, it has a very attractive aroma and upfront flavour however as I hear most people who have experienced lots of good wine tend not too interested in sauvignon blanc simply because there is nothing at the end, no length. Look at the majority of actors who get to be very popular simply because of the front note that attracts, however there is no base note in these often overly hot actors. And I see the same trend in how sauvinog blanc kicks up a world craze about it. The same moth flocking to fire phenomenon.