My Golden Life: Marriage of convenience

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Oppa finally woke up! He doesn’t want a marriage of convenience!

Even though my upbringing has been entirely Asian, my thoughts and actions are usually a cross between the East and the West due to my work and exposure to Western culture and business. There are Asian values which I consider important and should be retained but others which I consider archaic practices.

One of those archaic practices is a marriage of convenience, particularly on the basis of money, business and power. No love involved. Back in the days when I was still young and idealistic, I had thought that marriage of convenience no longer existed in these modern times. But I was wrong.

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A marriage of convenience arranged between Choi Dokyung and Jang Sora

It is still the practice, especially among the top echelons of some Asian societies. A little less cut and dried then previously when after one or two meetings, the engagement follows and shortly afterwards, marriage. Now, social events, by invitation only, would be planned for elite sons and daughters. These were opportunities to size up the who’s who and whether there is someone who meets the eye…so one level up then previously. But still confining themselves to inter-marriages within their class.

In KBS drama “My Golden Life” we saw a marriage of convenience between mother and father Choi. The Chois only had daughters, so they needed sons. Choi Dokyung’s father did not come from the rich elite but he was handpicked as suitable based on the requisite qualities and more importantly, he was willing to marry into the Roh family, rather than the woman into the man’s family. In a way, he will become a son but with all power still held by his wife and her father. A marriage of convenience in a loveless and cold marriage.

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A test of compatibility and whether he could chosen life without love

Even Choi Dokyung, who is educated in liberal US of A, accepted this practice. His marriage counter-party has been identified, with both families scrutinising each other for suitability focusing on business benefits, power and no scandal rather than love. In fact, he has not even met his so called wife-to-be! Okay, the childhood playmate don’t quite count! Sad that this man would be like his parents, entering into a loveless, cold marriage. And we know he is anything but cold! Poor oppa!

Luckily, he woke up just in time! No way would our Oppa accept a loveless marriage and so he told his shocked parents in Episode 28 of “My Golden Life”!

Good for you, Oppa! Stand up for what you want in life and for your love! Fighting!

KBS Drama Youtube Video – Episode 24 My Golden Life “I don’t want a loveless marriage”

My Golden Life Ep 28



其中一个古老的作风是政治婚姻,特别是为了财富,商业和权利, 没有爱情涉及。那时年轻和理想主义的我,以为在现代不再存在政治婚姻。但我错了!


My Golden Life Park Sihoo marriage of convenience

Will you marry another woman if there is a woman you love?



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A triangular love affair will not work!

幸好,他醒悟得早! 偶吧Oppa发觉自己接受不了没有爱情的婚姻!在“我黄金光辉的人生”第28集中,他告诉了他震惊的父母,他不要政治婚姻,要爱情婚姻!

偶吧Oppa,做得好! 一定要为争取你想要的幸福和充满爱的人生!加油!

Photo Credits – Many thanks! KBS Drama

10 thoughts on “My Golden Life: Marriage of convenience

  1. #朴施厚# #我黃金光輝的人生# 道京哥哥,你的選擇做得非常對,不要像你自己的父母一樣,進入冷漠和悲哀的婚姻生活啊!你絕對是有自由戀愛的權利。勇敢向你的所愛追求吧!我們都希望你幸福快樂,愛你所愛喲!

  2. Kim says:

    I’m watching u Dokyung 👀 r u the man who gives up everything for love ❤️ or r u the man who wants both power & love 🤔 will 👀👀👀

  3. When Choi Seo-Hyun tells Seo Ji-Ho that she and her brother, Do Kyung, have already fiances , future to be husband and wife for them, chose by their parents, Seo Ji-Ho exclaims in perplexity and amazement:”What, you are in Joseon period?”. Yes, we all are in :”Shock and awe” for that kind of marriage the Choi family accepts for their children, a marriage of convenience still practiced in the modern society of the 21st century, in Korea. But to our satisfaction, at the end of episode 28 , Do Kyung has taken that drastic decision :” not to marry without love.”, as he has finally undestood that :A strong marriage requires two people who chose to love each other, even on those days , when they struggle to like each other, when they struggle to fight against all hindrances against their love.” And this we’ll watch in the next episodes of “My Golden Life”, between Do Kyung and Jian, because :”Love is not only love. It’s hard work, and trust, and tears, with even a few glimpses of devastation. But at the end of each day, if you can still look at the person at your side and can’t imagine anyone else you’d rather have there, the pain and heartache and the ups and downs of love are worth it.”[Nicole Williams]. I think this is also the message ot the scripwriter against this marriage of convenience.

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